I made a promise to myself when I was younger to never be a hater

As a kid, I was always envying others because they had things that I didn't A good family, money, new clothes etc Growing up I realized hating is never a good strategy, you literally gain nothing from it Instead, I put my anger to work and built myself a life that other people envy When you hate on someone, you're basically admitting to yourself that he is better in that particular domain You hate on someone that has a supercar because you don't, you're a brokie that owns no car You hate a guy because he has hot girls, you don't and your ugly gf doesn't even respect you Sounds cliché but hate never comes from above Look at McGregor, Ronaldo, Mayweather etc their posts on IG are filled with hate from nobodies leaving comments from anon accounts They just express their frustration then go back to their miserable lives Nowadays, even if I don't like someone, I give him his flowers Also, never talk bad about people publicly unless you have a reason to do so, like they straight up did something to you personally, betrayed or scammed you Nobody likes negative vibes